The test will be if she decides to stay and you have to keep up the changes. I am seeing people who were here on the board a few years ago coming back again. They would go back into their old habits/patterns and the M would once again be on the rocks. Don't let that happen to you.
I hope and pray that she stays. I WILL NOT make the same mistake. Through councling and this site I have identified the weaknesses I had that allowed the depression to set in. That combined with some other things I changed that improved myself I hope will not let this come about again. I do not want this to EVER happen again. I don't want to imagine how bad this would have hurt my son. Unfortunately I know how much this has hurt me. It must have hurt W pretty bad to want to split the family up. So I do not want this to ever happen again.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Her diabetes can certainly affect her mood swings. Is she Type 1? Is she sleeping a lot during the daytime?
She is type 2 and yes she sleeps a lot. Tired quite often.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
I never was drawn to porn so I really don't know much from the woman's POV. Has this just started?
I beleive it is recent, last few weeks. Before this she has had very little sex drive.
