I see. So does your W work? Is she prepared to support her own household if/when she takes the leap out of the M? Do you see her making any plans, arrangements, moves to be independent of your household? Greek
She does work, but I have seen her make no plans. In our last MC session, the therapist asked her flat out if she thought she would be happyier on her own. My wife said she didn't know becuase she had't really thought about it
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling