I'm asking b/c it seems to me that you are DBing - hanging in there, making the changes, doing the work - but she's not budging. Makes me wonder what (who) is standing in the way.
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Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



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