Well....we went on vacation this weekend with a bunch of other couples and all the kids. Thw wife is still cordial but cold and her feelings have not changed. There has been no physical contact at all for the last month or so(I have not attempted any). It's been almost 4 months now and she is absolutely the same.

I am not sure how long to wait???? My folks have always been close to us and are now wanting to get involved. Dad wants me to kick her a$$ out of the house (exact words)and mom wants to write her a long letter. They know all of the details regarding our situation (especially my fault in this), but I told them to stay out of it.

Should I tell her it might be best to move out for awhile????

Thoughts????


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling