Last night, she came by and we went over the papers. Everything went fairly smoothly until the very end. She tried to make me sign these papers and I told her that I wasn't signing anything until the changes were made. She understood. Then I told her that once the changes were made I needed my attorney to look it over before I signed.
She went crazy and told me if I was getting an attorney then she was going to have to serve me and I should have let her know earlier that I was getting an attorney (which I did) and all this paperwork could have been avoided because it was set up as if I did not have an attorney. She then accused me of trying to drag it out or stall (which in some ways I am) and that I could play this game if I want to but it doesn't change anything.
She then informed me that I needed to be out of the house by the 15th of June. She stormed out and that was that.
The whole time I kept it together. I defended my position, did not ask her to stay, did not talk about the good ol' days, only brought up the kids as it related to the papers. A couple of times she tried to push a few buttons to make me snap, but I resisted the urge and remained calm.
My question is...now what?
why do you have to leave the house? She wants out of the marriage not you, do you guys own the house together?
