She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

tbart, you hit the nail on the head. They aren't the same person. They are lost in their own world trying to make sense.

I spoke to a friend of mine the other evening and he asked, "What happened to the woman you married? She used to be sweet and kind and a lot of fun." I told him I didn't even recognize her anymore. She has become those things I don't want in a R and it's sad.

But like Timeheals has said, they have their own path to walk. We can wish them the best, but ultimately they have to find their own way on the road they are on.

One other thing on detaching - I just realized our anniversary would have been on the 25th and it didn't come to me till this morning. I laughed because in the past I would have known the day without a doubt. Today, didn't even remember it - so I know I'm detaching even more.

Glad to hear you're doing ok.