Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I can tell you that there is no abuse. We have had our fair share of fights and nasty things were said in the heat of the moment.

Puppydogtails- in your experience do you have any advise on what I should do? Is it wise to spy? Should I let nature take it's course and let her make all the moves. I feel so powerless right now and I don't want to walk on eggshells for months to come.