I thought it would be a good segway into how she is feeling and she said after 2 months she feels better that we get along and she missed that. She also said that she is not feeling any better about us, and she has to attraction towards me anymore.
You pursued, she told you to back off, and you're not gettin' any.
You, then, pursued more, and you are back to D-talk.
Time to start thinking about what you want (and I mean serious reflection leaving her out of the mix while you do it as much as is possible. What does FFH want?).
So far her answer started out that she was happy having a nice room mate, and then it spiraled downward from there.
So... you have your answer for now. You live with somebody who isn't interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you and would prefer it if you acted all nice in all of this.
Needless to say your hunch about not spending a lot on the house was probably a good one at this point.
Focus on finding a path that suits you with or without her.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
