Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

Well, ironically my W just called me and she said that she is worried about me. She said that she has noticed a change in me. I told her that I have been working on myself and I feel better. So the change should be a good change.

I thought it would be a good segway into how she is feeling and she said after 2 months she feels better that we get along and she missed that. She also said that she is not feeling any better about us, and she has to attraction towards me anymore. She said she has been feeling this way ever since our son was born. She says she has no sex drive anymore and is confident that she won't miss it.

I asked if she thought seeing someone about that would be something she'd like to explore and she said "NO". Somehow we fell back into the D talk and selling the house, etc...

I'm not sure what triggered this but we have been really communicating better and having some nice time together. She told me last night that her monthly time is near and she is hormonal but I can't blame that for my problems.

I'm so confused about the signals she sends me. I had asked earlier in the beginning posts if these were true signs of someone who wanted a D? Does anyone have experiences like this? Am I crazy to think my marriage can be saved?