Yup, I know you have read books before.

Have you written out SPECIFICALLY what YOU NEED from your HUSBAND in ACTION?

"More romance" for example is NOT specific... He is NOT going to be able to ACT on that

BUY ME FLOWERS is specific.

And did you write it DOWN for him? Many men respond better to what they can SEE rather than what they can HEAR...

I am just guessing at what the roadblocks are...

I undestand there is history, but i am more concerned at what needs of yours aren't being met RIGHT NOW and what YOU are doing to HELP HIM MEET THEM.