online affair about to become physical

[david allen]

wife has taken new intrest in things that I have always loved or wanted to do such as biking kayaking fishing bon fires etc. I understand these are sparked by the other man but I cant help but to think if she could have noticed these things a year ago our marriage most likly wouldnt be where it is my question is should I bring this to her attention, or should I keep my mouth shut? has anyone had a similar situation, and what did you do.