My W and I had discussed the OM for about a month off and on. She seemed ashamed at first and then started getting angry with all the questions I would ask weeks later. My MC said I should start trusting her again if I want this to work.

Currently there are no signs of her having an A, at least a physical one. She's home everynight and she calls me more often when we aren't together. I'm just not sure anymore, and I'd hate to let my guard down.


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA