I don't think it can BE a game. I think you really have to BE "checked out," or at least SIGNIFICANTLY detached, and out GALing, etc., so that the "mystique" and "aloofness" that you portray isn't a game or a technique, it's very REAL.
It's not game-playing; it's basic male-female human dynamics.
Puppy
Right, when I was finally checked out, I didn't care what he knew and didn't. I try to be sensitive, and not flaunt my moving on, but I've made it clear that I am no longer interested in trying with him.
Man, Luvs, you seem ANGRY! I am going to read to see what happened!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I haven't been truly angry, yet. Rather, it seems to me that these gentlemen have been. I keep scratching my head, wondering what sin I've committed that offends them so much. *giggle*
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