He initiated a 2hr visit today. His 4th in 6 days. He seems besotted. More photos. I guess "loving" a child and wanting to parent them two different things for some nutty people.
I never thought of it like that! Good observation.
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WH has not stated he would like to co-parent her because I guess that would mean comitting to stay in the country and possibly ruin chances with OW. Out of interest, he did say during a bad argument that he would be happy to take the baby back to Europe and parent her there...!! Sans moi, obviously.
He sounds smitten with the baby. At this age, like we have said repeatedly, your baby just needs you anyhow. So the visitation schedule would really be a legal issue (are you even legally separated?) or convenient for you so you can know when to expect WH to visit. But visiting at this age is not parenting (IMO!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
