Possible EA - Need Advice

[newmama]

I realize that this can't go on forever - but I really don't want to worry my daughter until I know it's for sure. I just feel so awful for her - this wasn't what I wanted. I wanted her to have a 2 parent family and not have to be torn between two. And selfishly, I don't want to give her up on holidays, etc. I'd rather share than not see her at all

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I understand completely!! But you can start to be gone when he is there-make sure he sees you are going places, getting your life together because "you don't need him" and will find someone else if he doesn't take you seriously. At least that is the message you show when carrying on w/ your life. If you want, though. And there are other variations- check out DR again.