I've been reading a ton of other sitch about detaching yourself. I'm curious how I can do that when we live in the same house, still share the same bed.

Is it wise for me to ask her to move into the spare bedroom while we figure things out? Should I just keep doing what I'm doing and act like the go lucky guy that isn't worried about losing his W?

M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA