Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

My W is sending me such mixed signals I'm not sure whether I'm coming or going. Last night we ordered dinner and she asked me to sit right next to her on the couch. I enjoy being close to her but she never returns any of the affection that I show her.

We watched a movie in bed and went to sleep. I will certainly try these techniques that are suggested and see how she reacts.

On another note how do you really know if there is a OM??? I don't want to snoop anymore, I find it consumes my day. She has plenty of male friends on her FB page but I want to trust her and rebuild if we can. She has told me that the OM is out of the pic, and I totally over reacted to the sitch... I want to believe her but it's still unsettling that she confided in OM.