well what did he say when you asked why he was physically distant and wondered if he was still in contact with OW? Did he explain why he was physically distant?

And maybe he is telling you the truth- that he is not in contact with her. But it is/was worth it to make sure that is the case!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004