You know something, Melody, you can just take a break and do nothing for awhile. ha- even though you aren't supposed to threaten to expose, the silence from you will make him nervous for awhile because he doesn't know if you will do it or not!

Have you been communicating much with your H? Has he been trying to get hold of you? What are you doing and how are you acting while he is at his parents' house?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004