I tried to manage things without any help for awhile here, but I'm stuck again. My husband is still not living at home - staying with at his parents' house. He maintains that I "pushed him out" and that he did nothing wrong. Says that all I can prove is that he has a close relationship with OW. Says he hasn't and will not do anything with her. But he's not interested on working on things because he "sees what kind of person I am when I'm so controlling, etc." Well, I went out of town last weekend. Was just looking forward to seeing my family and then it ocurred to me that with him in our house (he was going to stay here bc it provided more continuity for our daughter) . . . that he would have a chance to get together with OW once our D was in bed. I tried to figure out various voice recording dealios and when I couldn't get that to work I just decided to ask a neighbor to watch out for OW's car.
And what do you know . . . several hours after my plane landed in another place, OW's car was parked on our street. It was there all night, but gone in the AM.
I went ballistic!!!! OW in house with my D! I told my H. to brace himself for the shitstorm he was about to encounter as I exposed to everyone . . .
Well, H contends that OW's parents' house (where she is staying, I think) was being remodeled so her and her brother didn't have anywhere to sleep . . . so he was being a nice guy and let them both sleep at our house. He ended up sending me texts showing her in an in-process remodel. After he "proved" that her house was being remodeled, he said it all just reminded him why he can't be with me - because I'm so unreasonable.
Either way, it's crap . . . why would a married man have a woman-in-question over to his house to sleep while his wife is away?
I'm telling you . . . I get closer and closer to completely throwing in the towel all the time. I thought I was there last weekend right after it happened - then, I thought of having to share my D on Christmas and I softened.
But I really don't know where to go from here. This stinks!
