Not really sure how that went. I hope I didn't blow it. I was calm, pleasant, cheerful, wore a pretty dress, smelled really good ... I was lookin' good! So, I maintained my composure, he came wrote out some checks, took some bills with him, and went to get into his car and leave.
Just before he left (through the garage door - the same way he came in),he said he would be back next Sunday to check on us to see how we're doing, if we need anything. That's when I opened my big mouth and may have blown it!
I asked him if instead of using the garage door opener and coming into the house, if he would please use the front door and ring the doorbell or knock. He said "well, that's awfully petty of you. I have to ring the doorbell of my own house, when I am making the house payments!" Then he left.
Maybe I shouldn't have said anything. I don't know why I said that. Well, actually, I do know why. I said it because he left us and moved out voluntarily. Nobody asked him to move out. Since he no longer lives here, he should knock or ring the doorbell like everybody else who doesn't live here. Yes, I know, I'm "right", but it's probably set me back several steps. I'm kinda bummed.
Oh, and no, he didn't mention anything about me all dressed up either. Didn't say anything, didn't ask where I was going or where I had been. Nothing. I pretty much expected that anyway. But, maybe he'll think about me.
So, I maintained my composure, he came wrote out some checks, took some bills with him, and went to get into his car and leave.