If you can find a way to stop reacting, please let me know. I think it hurts so much just because we keep hoping and hoping and they come in every once in awhile & crush it. Just for fun.
Can you make a point of not being there if he's going to come over?
And I have to say, I REALLY like the thought of hiring someone to do it.
ftr--separated is still married. I'm totally with you on that one.
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formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
