Re-Connecting

[newmama]

Fighting, at the very least your W appears to be wavering, don't you think? "believe nothing they say and less than 1/2 what they do" So don't be discouraged by her talk of the loan on the house.

Just wanted to throw in other forms of affection that are not super aggressive but sweet:
patting her arm, squeezing her shoulders, squeezing her hand, hug, sitting close on the couch, pulling her feet onto your lap and holding them while you watch TV, sweeping her hair off of her face or neck

but these tend to be a little "saucier:"
back rub, foot rub, hug from behind, swat on the tush or grabbing her by the waist when she walks by...