Wifey, I'm sorry this has all come to where it is for you. But I'm reading a strong, determined, last-straw Wifey and I'm glad for that - and admire it.

And this:
Originally Posted By: TheWifey
Mostly I get I don't know and its one day at a time.
Not to decide is to decide. I say he has decided but lacks the, um, testicular fortitude to say it.

You sound good despite it all.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac