Originally Posted By: Greek
You have to face that you have - for now - lost him to another woman. Your husband is cheating on you - breaking your M vows and taking his family down. So, Marie to H: "I know what you are doing and I will not allow it in this home any longer. You have a choice and you must make it right now. You can either cut off all contact with OW, be transparent with cell phones, email and whereabouts, and go to counseling with me to resurrect our M... OR ... you can leave tonight and I will begin interviewing lawyers Tuesday morning first thing. I will keep your clothes and personal belongings here one week - plenty of time for you to find a place. If you have not picked it all up by then, I will store it in the garage for you. But you may not live here and keep her."

Then you stand by it, lady. STAND. BY. IT.Greek
Absolutely dead on an put more succinctly than any cheating/betraying boundary I've read on this board. This is your exact script. Memorize it
And I would add to say this as you are about to leave the house for something. Anything. No immediate response or discussion should follow this.

Last edited by Gardener; 05/31/10 02:01 AM.
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