Thanks CW, I'm sure H doesn't see it that way. AFter all, its too easy to blame anything that rocks his MLC world on me. As I said before, I think he plan was to have everything packed and once he left town to tell his folks. I suspect then he was thinking he'd trot out OW as a 'new girlfriend' and that no one would be the wiser. He really is not attached to reality at the moment.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair