It was a beautiful day out and I asked W a few times if she was up to doing anything, she did not say no but would say "not right now" I would let time pass getting myself occupied then I would ask her again if she wanted to do something, each time something different.
Eventually I just said to her "I know you are hurting and are not up to doing anything, just relax. I am going to go to the cookout and allow you to rest." I then left and went to family cookout by myself. Of course while I was there everyone was asking about her.
I got back home W was still sleeping, she did wake up shortly after I got home and asked if something to eat. We then sat in bed watched some TV and had a little conversation....
There was an instance where W the dog bumped into W sore arm and W started to groan in pain. I placed my hand on W arm and kind of rubbed it for her asking if she was OK. Then years of habit prompted me to do it. She did not pull away or object thou.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10