Hi again CityGirl. I think also part of the intervention is letting the secret out. Right now I am keeping this secret that no one knows about. Having his parents know about it and him realize that other people know what is going on might persuade him to get help.

I really dont know what to do. Again, I feel scared and I know that I am operating out of fear but I'm just so upset I dont feel like dealign with it. I dont want to answer his email becaues its too painful and I would rather ignore it for now until I feel more confident in my steps.

I am scared of losing him. I am saying that. I am very scared. And I understand this is a real possibility but I just can't really deal with it right now. I need more time.