Maybe I didn't blow it?

[james217]

I am in full on anger mode right now. I find myself sincerely wishing for her to be miserable.

Thats not healthy.

I wrote up a big long letter to her, and considered posting it here, but I don't see the point in sending it.

It was basically just me telling her that she is dead wrong about me having an affair, and then I go off about how disgusted I am with her and her actions and how I have no desire to see her again, much less remain married to her.

Probably not worth even saying, at this point.

invoke the 48 hour rule. I'm telling you kon you're where I was about 3 weeks ago when I totally made things worse.

I was angry ticked off and hurt. I lashed out and did alot of things I wouldln't have normally done.

She's trying to use your so called "A" as a reason to justify her actions.

But even then two wrongs wouldn't make a right.

You need to blow off some of that steam. How do you usually do that