lol Gatsby! I am laughing at the turmoil over cleaning because I understand! Maybe he will have a flashback to a positive memory of how you used to clean your apartment for him...

Your day sounds fun! I will be checking back...can't wait to hear if he feels your baby! Those look like good goals. Yes, you CAN control whether or not the conversation stays light- you can say "let's talk about that later" or something to diffuse if he gets negative. I don't know if that is the best expression but it is an example. You can change the subject and talk about baby. Of course that is IF you don't want to talk about those things.

Good luck but you don't need it...you are strong on your own!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004