these things seem to only work when you are still living together. when you are seperated and one person files, then what do you do? how do you make them 'fight' for you when they desperately want to get rid of you???
They [sometimes] work in the way of reconciliation, but at that point, the focus is on doing what is right for yourself.
Contribute to the relationship when the partner is, otherwise, you don't have a partnership at all. It's like playing tennis when the other person refuses to return the ball. The ball is in the other person's court. What do you do? Wait. What do you do while you wait? Take care of yourself.
