Well, tonight she is supposed to come over and discuss changes I need made to the divorce papers. Mostly, all the changes are in concerns of the kids (number of days I get them, which holidays are spent where, etc.). While, I know I can push her away by bringing up that I think the divorce is a bad idea, she goes out of her way to not speak with me at most times. So, unlike in the past, when she could see positive changes (even if she did not verbally recognize them), there is little that I can do in terms of things like the 180 that will have any impact on her at all.
So my question is (sorry for the multiple posts in one day), do I say anything at all to her tonight in regards to fixing the marriage or do I just give her the papers and let her serve me?
If I could get her to interact with me, I think I could stand a chance at fixing this. But the more she broods over there, all disconnected, I truly think she's convincing herself that it is the right thing to do.
Any direction or encouragement would be greatly appreciated! I need all the help/hope/prayers I can get.
