Actually, yes, I do think I have done some damage to the affair through exposure, getting a protective order that says OM cannot come to my house, and laying it on the line a couple of weeks ago with the TSO papers. I think these are the things that have helped my sitch the most. I don't think W and OM have been trying to get together lately, just talking on the phone in spite of promises not to. I think that I have managed to take much of the romance out of it too. I would also say that this board is mostly what inspired me to do those things.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
