i have my story on the 'newcomers' thread if any of ya'll are interested. i went home to see my family for two weeks and he housesat for me at OUR home that he move dout of two months ago, called me constantly, kept using 'we' sentances, wanted to pay for my hotel room, wante dto make sure i had my seatbelt on. then, after a 16 hour F-ING drive, i walk in to find myself served with divorce papers. he didn't mention this to me before. he could draft them all up because he is a lawyer and does this for a living. so, the next day i saw my attorney and my attorney called him. said he was wishy washy and acting like he wante dto put it off, so i asked him why he wanted to put it off. i asked if it was for sentimental reasons and he said 'maybe i was feeling sentimental", i then told him i didn't want the divorce, but i dont want to sit around like this for another eight months, that i would be willing to stay seperated but only if we are working twards something. he said he would 'meditate on it'. that was friday, then, saturday i had issues with having my swamp cooler serviced and wanted to talk to him about it (ok yeah it was an excuse) and i called him about a hundred times with no answer!! i'm so stupid what should i do? please, someone....
