Thanks, Greek you are right. Thanks, everyone. I needed that! I need a big push to do what I know I need to do. I think I haven't becuase I know that he WILL leave, and I am not ready to face that.
He is the type of person that doesn't like being told what to do or given an untimatium - he will do the exact opposite out of spite.
Sandi - you are right - thanks for the advice. I feel a girls night out coming on..let him stay home with the kids, no matter how much he complains about it! And before that,a trip to the salon.
Me:36 H:38 Together: 20 years Married: 16 years Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old Discovered affair: 1/10 H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige. Divorce filed: December 2010
