Do not initiate any R talk at all...if he starts talking, just validate with "I understand" "I can see how you feel that way" etc. Do not let him pull you in to any R conversation.
Yes, look good, act confident, calm, nice as if you were dealing with a business associate but that is it. You could meet him at the door and give him the mail and the bills.
Haven't read your full sitch so hope this helps!
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