REAL QUICK .... Need Some Fast Advice - TIME SENSI

[TimeHeals]

Get his mail together, when he gives you checks say "Thank you, and if he says he's sorry or something like that, say "Me too".

Take your power back. You are giving it all to him. No chasing, no arguing, and so on. Trust that whatever happens in the future (and you have never known what the future was going to bring), you can handle it... because you CAN.

I am not sure you are in a place where you can do this and have it be genuine, but if staying calm and civil is a 180 for you, and you can handle it, try to just be nice and not talk too much.