Now opinions please - H emailed me again to do some garden work this weekend...should I let him come and work and ignore him and be "unavailable". I'm kind of thinking, free labor...and I hate cutting grass.
If he can use joint funds to travel to see OW and dine on king crab and French wine, certainly you can use joint funds to hire a strong, handsome man to mow your lawn, - with his shirt off of course.
