Flowers & gifts work for Lotus.....but if that is not your W's love language, then it is not going to be romantic for her. It doesn't do much for me and seems like a lazy way out of using one's brain..... grin (Sorry Lotus)

A man being romantic, to me, doesn't mean gifts. I like for him to put some thought into doing something special for both of us. For me, it would be wonderful if my H would make plans for a get-away (without me having to do it). If he would take me to the beach at night when the moon is bright, or have a private, candlelit meal on the roof-top of a tall building, or go sailing, or dancing......any of those things would be romantic to me. However, like I said, you need to know what your W enjoys. What works for one woman does not necessarily mean it does for all women.

If money is tight (which I don't know that's the case with you) and you are out for gifts or romantic dinners.....she might get upset at that, IDK. But men can do things that are not expensive and it can still be romantic. Go on Internet and type in "Cheap romantic ideas".


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!