I'm not talking about just confronting him. I'm talking about having an intervention with his family. He is an addict.
I have confronted him before and that has not worked because there have been no consequences. He has had me keep this secret, he is in denial. I think he knows he has a problem - otherwise why would you ask soemone to keep it a secret? Why would you have secret email accounts? Why when I found out would you say you feel like dying?
I just got off the phone with the interventionst. He said I need to bring the parents into the picture and let them know what is going on. He said we would have a phone call with the parents and me to explain the prcoess. The interventionist would fly out and meet with us for a day to go over everythign and then we would confront husband and ask him to go to treatment. It is not forcing. It is setting boundaries. If he does not go that is his choice.
I want to at least get DB coaches thoughts on this tomorrow.
Basially interventionist said that no matter what happens with the marriage I still care about husband and what he is doing with his life that is true.
