You can't do anything to "make" him change. He has to "want" to change.

He has to hit rock bottom before he even wants to change. Concentrate on yourself for now and get your self-esteem back on track.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER