So I decided I needed to make sure I didn't look like crap this time when H comes by to drop the kids off... and since H thinks I was going to meet a friend (but not my separated female one) I thought I'd get myself looking as hot as I could, but slightly rumpled (LOL). I plan on coupling it with that half smile you can't keep off your face when you've had a good night if you know what I mean... ;P

So after I kicked myself in the butt (almost gave myself a charley horse doing it) I redyed my hair, tousled it up ala Pretty Woman, got my best pushup/feel good undies on (sorry gents) put on a skirt and a low cut (but not ho territory) top that showed my girls off.. LOL

Just finished the makeup (nice if I do say so myself) and plan to have "just gotten in" when he drops them off in an hour or so. Since my mom is off having a snit who knows where right now and won't be home until late, I can use her as an excuse as to why I came home early should he ask. Won't say she's in a snit, just that I knew she wanted to stay out later and said I'd make sure I was home.

I do NOT plan on saying much, just smiling to myself in the cat-ate-canary way and focusing on the kids, not him.

The skirt is a big deal as I used to wear them (some naughty , some nice) all the time when we were dating, but stopped when the first kiddo arrived and went to the (bleck) stretch jogging pants.

Trying to recoup my mojo.. dust it off, polish it up, etc.

If he makes any comments about my claim to still be married, I'll let him know I am, but there are very patient people all over the place...And I'm worth the wait...

Will let ya know how it plays out...

Last edited by DiamondGirl; 05/30/10 05:45 PM. Reason: NOT cheating! LOL

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