Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

OK this is what I am told.

This female co-worker already is annoyed by my W, but she listens. This female co-worker is better friends with my friend who also works with them. This female co-worker tells my friend at times what they talk about. This female co-worker told my friend that she has her own family to worry about she does not want to get involved.

Now this female co-worker does have a "relationship" with OM good friend who also works with them.

So it is hard to determine what female co-workers intentions are or what advice she is giving.

What signs am I looking for at this point? How do I know we are progressing and she is getting over OM? No one can guarantee the two do not at least exchange a few words here and there but I have people who are looking out for me then I have OMW who tells me all is glory on their end.