I just don't know what to do. Like I said I feel like he is self destructing and has a problem. I also recognize I can't make him do anything or change him. In a way I want to confront him so he can "wake up" and hopefully get help. Another part of me is scared to do that because maybe I am scared it will make things worse and come across as "begging" or something and then push him away. But I'm worried that if the problem is not addressed then it's possible all DBing is fruitless. I am so upset today. I am so sad. I hate being put of control - I just wish someone could tell menhat to do.
Maybe it would be best to just keep DBing and hope that he will realize what he is doing?