Thanks Lotus! I'm curious as to what some other people will say as well as DB coach. I just feel like the problem needs to be addressed and a "bottom" created for him. Right now he is literally living a double life - his family members are probably enabling him and don't even know it because they don't know what is going on. I have known this man for 15 years - I am willing to forgo my chance at reconcilliation if it means he can get help. If I try and I pushes him further away at least I can go to sleep knowing I tried and move on the best I can.
