Well, new development. My MIL called and asked to talk to H, I told her that he was not here and told her to call him on his cell phone. He had told me that he wanted to be the one to tell his parents 'what is going on' and I have respected that, so figured this was the easiest way to deal with the situation.

15 min later I get a call from H, of course he is mad at me saying "what did you tell my mother?" I informed him that she was looking for him and I only mentioned he was gone. He wanted to know why I just had not picked up the telephone and ignored the call! He warned me that MIL 'is a first class meddler and she'll be calling you, don't talk to her" then hung up.

I guess part of me is glad that the in-laws know something is up, and part of me is terrified of the wounded MLC beast.


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10