I hate to say it, and you can take this with a grain of salt, but the way you present those things makes it sound like she is planning on staying in the house with your son and having you leave. [/quote]
I've thought the same thing. When she started this loan modification she mentioned that it will be good for the situation "even if we end up staying together" Both our names are on the paperwork, but I have to wonder if there is a master plan behind this.