Originally Posted By: sandi
When she sees you using any of your old ways, like trying to fix the old M


Yes this is what I meant by my post Stilt.

This is hard to hear and hard to accept.

Your M is where it is because of the past and as they say, your best thinking got you HERE.

And you are HERE.

That is the good news...

So...

Do take a deep breath.

Try to enjoy your weekend (what's left of it)

I like Sandi's sig line...

Do what works...

That means what works for YOU.

Not tactics. Changes.

For YOU.

You don't know what that is yet.

When you do what works for YOU then...

You have a shot at reconciling your M.

It starts with YOU.

And THAT is the work we do.

THAT we must do

THAT takes courage

THAT takes patience.

SO be patient.

Ths is a process and a journey.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am