Allen- Thanks for the book idea. I don't want to be one of those people that disregard all the advice and just come here whining. But, my first thought when I hear about a book is "Ugh, been there, done that...a million times". I have a million books, all are ones that I see on my new counselor's bookshelf. That being said, I'll check into the book. Doesn't look like a tough read.
Newmama- Yes, I posted to you before. I googled the "plain of lethal flatness"...sounds about right. More books to again try. I've looked at a few things on that other website, but nothing in depth. Thanks for the resource idea. 2 - 5 years, huh? Well, maybe that's it then...more time......I just keep seeing the years pass me by. I wanted another child.....it's not going to happen. I lose so much with the time.
M 39 H 39 1 son, 7
Multiple affairs before/during/and after separation, came clean, went to Retrouvaille, forgave each other, Piecing for over a year, same problems exist, back to counseling
