Well, she went to visit family this weekend. This is the second weekend in a row that she's gone to see them. I wouldn't have known she was going but she sent me a text message on Friday to let me know.
This is "code" for going to be with the OM again. She wants to make sure you are still there for her in case it doesn't work with him. She needs a place to land. You are in denial and being naive. This is textbook behavior when there is an affair going on right under your nose. They are always off to visit family, or a long lost girlfriend, or taking a "business trip. And of course the BS always plays right into it by being in denial and wanting so badly to give them the benefit of the doubt. Big mistake.
Yep -- BINGO. 100% "script."
Sculley, what part of "independent intel" didn't you understand? Asking her doesn't do any good.
If she is cheating on you, she'll deny it. If she isn't cheating on you, she'll deny it.
